Communication Of Family Is Important

Yesterday, i had a drink with a friend.
He was very anger to his sister.
The different of age between my friend and his sister is quite a long distance.
Maybe cause of this reason, their communication is nt so good, i mean sometimes.
Now, what's wrong with them? His sister talk loudly to him when he was going to start his car.But 1 thing, not the false to speak loudly,just because her words sound like 'have thorns behind the words'..The way she talk.
This is what my freind doesn't like.
my friend told me this situation not just happened once, quite many times his sister talk like that to him.
Maybe cause of lack of communication between them, the same situation happened and happened again.Her sister always no ask for fact what my friend did, and just scold him without any proof and just follow her own view.
Although i cant understand his feeling so much, but based on his case,
i felt that the communication between family members are much important then others.
As a result,
if we always communicate and empathize to our family members or even freinds,we can avoid arguement and the unhappy situation to be happened.

Communication in Uzbek culture

When people communicating with each other of course you consider their culture, religion. You should understand how to communicate, besides this you should be great listeners. For example in Uzbek culture you should talk with people very openly, because people talk with each other their life, share their life expierence. When you talk you must be very polite to other people. People observe you how you talk. But you mustn't talk about political things, government, because people don't like telling about it. To being modest also very important in our communication. when you are polite and modest people more respect you. And In the street always people say to each other "hello, how are you? how is your life? by putting their hand to heart in my language ( assalomu alaykum, yaxshimisiz? ishlariz yaxshimi? ) it causes you to be more near to people and it is considered your respect to people. In our life we have so many parties, meetings. And when you want to invite people to your party you have to go to their home and you will give invitations. In parties, especially in weddings you will see so many people that talking each other like interpersonal communication, small group communication. And you always must be understand people's situation and listen carefully, don't disturb them when they are saying something to you always listen until they finish.

Group Communication

is good to have group discussion in class,

this is because when go through this process we can collect different opinion

from different people from our group menbers....

by having this, we can also get more information from others,

this might be wider our visual field or may let us know more about something

that we do not know in my 18years old life in this planet.

through group communication we may also know other thinking..

BUT...

small group communication often will happens somethings that all of us really do not like

and also don't wan it to happens....

this is maybe have 1 or 2 group members do not wan to contribute whatever they know...

thy may keep quite all the time when the group are having discussion

this situation may happen, maybe because they do not know how to communicate with other group members, who not their friend or just know each other...

this happen also can cause by the scare they will said something wrongly,

this maybe can cause other group member dislike he or she..

i also face such situation likes when having group discussion i will said something wrongly before...

this is because,

my daily communication language is CHINESE,

so I cant speak fluent English.

Sometimes,

when i wany to said something,

the sentences appear in my mind is chinese,

i cant straightly translate to English,

i will stunk a while b4 i say something...

sometimes i will fell difficult when need to have group discussion,

but i will also contribute my opinion too

i will never give up learn to speak well in English

because i know English is important to my daily communication....

nowadays english is world widely use,

so i must master it to make myself can communicate easily wit other people in this world...

Malaysia for the first time.

Today is first time i'm writing In a blog. So it is of course so difficult to write this blog. Because i never use such a thing. So for the first time I'm going to begin about my feelings about leaving my hometown Uzbekistan. It was so sad to leave my family behind, but i was also excited to go to new country, to meet new friends, new culture and of course to futher my studies. it was very challenging for that moment. When i landed here i felt myself like different Fazilat. You know It seemed to me like new chapter of my life. And i began to think about my life that many new things will be happen in future. But on the other hand i had negative aspects also, Firstly I hadn't adaption for Malaysion people, food, weather,culture. Secondly I missed my hometown, family a lot, almost everyday i cried. But i tried to be more independent and to focus on why i came here in the first place...to futher my studies.

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