Principles of Communication......(Adetola Charity Popson)

There are uncountable principles of communication in the world today.

But in class, we were taught but a few.

My favourite principle of communication is:

Communication is inevitable, irreversible and unreapeatable...

hmmm....it really makes sence to me

That's why I have leanrt to value what i say, be slow to speak and value what i do at a particular place and time.

Because its a fast message being passed across and it can never be rewined or taken back...

My first day in class.......(Adetola Charity Popson)

My first day of class was an awesome experience.How? you might ask.i'll tell you.Well,it started this way,

I walked into the class contemplating whether i should take the course or not but as i entered the class and the lecturer began to teach i realized that i had finally found my "Place" .You see, i have a professional love for Psychology of which i beleieve Human Communication falls under, at the end of my first class i became convinced that this was what i wanted as it was in line with future career path. Along side my being fufilled, i met new and beautiful friends that help the class to be more lively and interesting.

Though we didn't do much in class that day but I had so much fun when we were told to get a partner and sit face to face with that individual, look closely at that person and write about the physical behavioural characteristics of that individual and write about it. My patner did the same for me and almost all her obseravtions were right ! I was really amused !!! But most impotantly, I learnt that the physical carriage matters alot as it is the mirror to another.....thanks.

Languages

Languages,there are so many types of languages in the world.
However,not all the people can speak in different types of languages, other than their mother language. Some people can speak in just 1 languages, some might speak in different languages.

During secondary education, my class teacher told me that the Malay language is the most easiest language to learn, and the hardest of course is Chinese..
However,English is the common language used in the world. We use English to communicate, to share information, to proceed our business and so on.
To me,i expose to english, malay and chinese since i was young.

But, in fact, i can't speak in English very well.The reason maybe is i was studied in a chinese school and didn't speak in English but chinese.
Now, the problem is coming when i study in college.
When i want to speak to other friends, i can't speak well,and sometimes, they don't really understand what i said.
Regret, this is the word to explain that why i didn't learn English seriously during secondary education.

So, communicate in the same language between us is much important than other things. When each of us can't speak in a common language, we will face to many problems especially communicate to each other.

verbal & non-verbal communication

after the lesson i only know that the majority communication that we use in our daily life is

NON VERBAL communication

although we tall everyday with our friends, family members and also other people,

but this may not be the common use communication skill...

most of the time we use body language or facial expression to bring out some signal to others from ourself...

such as :

if you like someone you will try to talk with she or he,

but if you dislike someone,

you will try to avoid to communicate with the person you dislike...

Non-verbal communication also will be use in some cases

Such AS

if you are shy to tell your friend something,

you can try to communicate with them with non-verbal communication,

this may let them know what you want to tell them....

TO ME

if i do not like someone behavior, i will try to let them know ,

by not giving response to them, when they are doing that behavior tome,

this can help us to remain our friendship,

but not giving out any words that will hurt them..

In addition,

when i am unhappy,

i will give out some facial expression to let my friend know i am unhappy today...

this will also help my friendship me and my friend...

this is because when i give out some facial expression ,

my friend will know i have no mood today,

they will try not to let me be more unhappy'

through this some argument can be prevent between my friend an I...