It is good to be a empathic listener

Empathic listening is refers to trying to understand what a person means and what a person feels.
Nowadays,people are busy with their work, they even less communicate with each others although they are neighbours. In this busy city, people are less communicate when they no work. This condition shows that people now are less empathize to each other.

Empathic listening will help somebody enhance relationships.
Besides that, when somebody express his/her empathy, he/she could help another one to feeling his/her caring. This is a good condition.
When somebody is in trouble,empathic listener could be a good helper.

So, why we don't be a empathic listener?

There are some steps to empathic listening:
1. Understand the speaker's point of view
2. Engage in equal,two way conversation
3. Understand both thoughts and feelings
4. practise to effective listening
5. practise to objective listening(detaching oneself in order to best understand the speaker)