Misunderstanding VS Conflict

Conflict are normal occurrence in life and once we understand some principles of conflict we won't go wrong.

A times conflict might be needed to define a good and balance relationship.

Though am not encouraging conflict but most times when i have a misunderstanding with my friends, I make sure I think and narrow it down..... I do ask myself this questions: 1. what caused the misunderstanding and 2: How to resolve it?

And once I realize the cause of the misunderstanding, then the conflict will be resolved.........

So, a times It's because we can not solve our misunderstanding that brings about the conflict...... That means, Conflict can be a choice and can just happen if one party is not ready to listen to the other!!!